Alright, let me share one of my favorite little secrets Iβve been using for yearsβ¦I bribe the universe.
Not with chocolate or money (although who knows, maybe that works too π).
I bribe it with perspective.
Anytime Iβm working toward something β launching a new project, setting a goal, waiting on an opportunity β I always say:
βThis or something better.β
Itβs kind of my magic phrase.
I say it in my head. I write it in my journal. I scribble it in my planner and on post-it notes. Itβs everywhere.
Why?
Because it reminds me to ask for what I want without being attached to the outcome.
β¨ I want this goal.
β¨ But if thereβs something better lined up for me β Iβll gladly take that instead.
Itβs a subtle shift that makes a huge difference.
Instead of gripping too tightly, this practice opens up space for even better things to flow in.
And itβs a powerful tool in business too.
You put the offer outβ¦
You pitch the clientβ¦
You set the goalβ¦
And then? You release it.
βThis, or something better.β
Itβs not just wishful thinking β itβs a way to trust that youβre on the right track no matter the outcome.
The full quote I often use is this:
βThis, or something better, now manifests for me in totally satisfying and harmonious ways, for the highest good of all concerned.β
Give it a try this week. Whisper it to yourself after sending an email, before a Zoom call, or when dreaming about the next big thing.
It might just change how you show up β and what shows up for you.